How should I learn N in Morse code?

Listen to dah dit as one rhythm at 20 WPM rather than counting individual marks.

International Morse alphabet

N in Morse code

Dah dit: night light

-.dah dit

30 second sound drill

Listen to the complete rhythm. Do not count its parts.

Repetitions

Ready

Hear N as one sound

At 20 WPM, the elements join into a recognizable audio shape. Farnsworth spacing leaves time after the complete character without changing that shape.